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age
36-40,
*ellovafella
writes:hey there,Im a bisexual lad, im 19 and im desperate for a relationship. People comment that think im good looking and cute all the time, but i never seem to meet anyone (nobody finds me attractive or that im not boyfriend material).I dont understand what i have to do. Everyone loves me 'as a friend' but im scared that, that is all ill ever be... the bisexual best friend.Please help
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reader, spirited  +, writes (3 February 2008):
I will tell you one thing from experience: desperation leads to compromising yourself... never good.
You might feel that you just want something to come along, ANYTHING. But if you stoop down for anything, you will give yourself to people that aren't worth your time.
From personal experience, I dated around with several guys hoping to be that girl they couldn't be without and all that happened was that I got totally taken advantage of and felt more empty and worthless than before. I even allowed myself to do things I wasn't comfortable with just to get that "love" that I needed. I didn't get any "love", I just got used.
Believe me, that someone will come along, and when they do, you will be able to be proud that you were selective and allowed yourself only those people who are worthy of your time and are of your quality.
Don't stoop down or settle. You'll regret it later. Four years later, I still do.
Love yourself for all your have to offer and take this time to work on making yourself as happy as you possibly can. When you least expect it, someone will come and catch you off guard.
God bless!
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