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writes:I want to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, but I am scared I'm going to bleed. He has fingered me 2 times, and I use my fingers when I masturbate too. I haven't seen any blood yet. Will I bleed the first time we have sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, CarregCariad  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 Your hymen could already be broken from exercise or your lifestyle, so you shouldn't be worried if you don't bleed at all.
As boobunny said, take it slow when it comes to having intercourse and enjoy yourself.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): Well I know I didn't bleed from the fingering yet. It was just a little painful the first time he did it. So I don't think I broke my hymen but thank you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): It is possible that from the fingering you have already tore your hymen. If this is the case, you won't bleed when you first have sex. But even if you haven't yet tore your hymen (don't worry, it's not as painful as it sounds), there is usually so little blood that it's hardly even noticable. Many women don't even bleed at all when it's torn. I didn't bleed my first time. So, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just tell your boyfriend to take it nice and slow and I think it'll be a very enjoyable experience for both you! Best of luck!
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