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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm in school in England and have this great girlfriend that I love loads... It's just I was thinking is there any point in our relationship? A couple years from now if we haven't broken up we'll probably be going to different uni's or something, and I'll have to break up with her or something :S She's already hinted in conversation that we won't be going out forever. I'm just wondering I'm starting to really really love her (well I'm not sure if its real love but I "like" her so so so much and what's going to happen in 2 years?) One of my mates told me it's just good "experience" and builds "character". What shall I do? Just make the most of our time together? Since I've been going out with her (6 months now) I've taken a lot less interest in other girls as well. Is this bad? Please gimme some advice! :S Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): No, it isn't bad. She doesn't have unrealistic expectations. She knows you're both kids still and will be going your sep. ways. You do need to realize this, but that doesn't mean you cant enjoy eachother's company until that happens. Your friend is correct, being in a relationship is good life experience and does bulid character. You'll be in many more relationships after this one and your situation isn't any diff. than anyone who is in a relationship. Because nobody knows if their relationship is going to be forever, even with marriage. So enjoy what you have now, and don't worry about this.
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