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anonymous
writes:Hey y'all,My boyfriend is completely infatuated with me; he thinks I am the greatest girl. Recently, he told me what set me apart from his exes is that I'm not possessive. It really bothered me after hearing that. The truth is, I am quite possessive. I get this gut wrenching feeling whenever he is away from me or when he hangs out with other girls. I just don't show it. Now I feel like I have deceived him... It's bothering me. What should I do? I'm afraid that one day my true color will show and I will become a big disappointment to him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): ok you feel you are possessive but your boyfriend says your not. But you say he is infatuated with you, so really you have no reason to be possessive because you know hes infatuated with you, so you stop obsessing and in turn he will then be even more so infatuated with you because you will have started to relax!
You are stressing over a compliment your boyfriend gave you but you dont think its true, he's probably quite a good judge so go with it and enjoy yourselves, ur clearly very much in love!
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reader, sammi star +, writes (21 January 2011):
 This man has put you on a pedestal. He thinks you're perfect and that's an impossible expectation to live up to. Everybody feels a bit insecure from time to time especially when the relationship is new and you're still figuring things out, but although you do feel this way you obviously are able to keep it in check and not allow it to let you start acting like the crazy girlfriend!
Tell him that you're only human and you have the same worries and insecurities as everybody else. The difference is you're not going to try and stop him from doing his own thing and having a little part of his life just for himself that doesn't involve you. Get it out in the open now so that you don't feel like you're decieving him. It doesn't have to become an issue.
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