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writes:Aunty's I can't beleieve what just happened. My cousin hooked me up with a chic I'll say is "X". Okay so we kicked it on the phone for 9 months until last Saturday. She liked me and I liked her. She calls me tonight and said we should be friends cause I don't believe in having a black bf. Ok so I'm half black and half white but I look white. She's also half back and half white but she looks all black. There's nothing about her looking whte. It gets better. She called me a littel while ago and cursed me down cause I made a profile on a dating network. Is she crazy or am I crazy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): well no ones crazy...shes just confused on what she really wants. The fact that she first refused to be with you and then called you up again because she didn't like you being on a dating network proves her confusion.
I think if ur looking for true love, then its best that you move on. A person who gives skin colour more importance is shallow. So i would suggest go on with your dating network, maybe you will find someone more understaning there and it will help you move on :)
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2011): she's the crazy one. You were fine with her preference and that's why you did a profile. But she freaked out because of it. She wants you and she doesn't want you. That's a major red flag that she's a loose wing nut. stay wasy from that looney tune.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 She's not crazy. She's got an up-tight preference though. try and not let it bother you, but take it as a red flag: this girl is not for you! Even if she does chance her mind, clearly she's got her mind dead set on a few things here and there which could make a relationship difficult. I think she's looking for mr. perfect, and it's easy to fail when compared to mr. perfect.....
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