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writes:okay so, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few weeks, and he is a really sweet person, but acts tough for his friends. me and him get along perfectlyy but we havent kissed yet. im not sure weather he wants to kiss me because of his friends or not, but he is always showing off for themm. i dont know what to do, he wont listen to me when i talk to him about it, and i dont wanna break up with him.... ):please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, karen1989  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 Sounds like hes a little shy? Is he a shy person?
If he won't kiss you when its just the two of you then hes shy. If he only won't kiss you in front of his friends thats because he doesnt want to look like a pussy in front of them. Hes a guy,they have a lot of pride. Too much pride! But its just something we have to accept I guess.
If hes shy he'll come out of his shell a bit more when he knows you a bit better and is more relaxed/comfortable around you. Don't worry yourself over this though,just see how it goes. Go with the flow.
Good luck :)
Karen.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (22 July 2010):
 Pretty normal in 'young love' cases. Don't fret it and both of you take your own time, eh?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): If you've never kissed he's not you boyfriend... sorry.
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reader, Kassandra +, writes (22 July 2010):
Okay now this is weird.! You should talk to him about it.! Tell him that you dont like watz hes doing.! Only couse hes friends are there that dont mean that he should not kiss you.! Thats the time that he should let everyone know that he likes you.! You should also wacth out that he really like you because most boys go with girls only for a bet.! But i think you should talk to him about it.!
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (22 July 2010):
It's called young love! and yes they try to impress their friends! and don't want to be called a sissy. there is nothing wrong w/ you give it some time and if he continues to act like that just tell him to go hang out w/ his friends? i remember those days!!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): If you're hanging out in a group, he probably doesn't want to kiss you in front of his friends because he doesn't want to get made fun of. Try to find some time to spend together alone with him and see how he acts. A lot of guys try to put on a macho tough front with their friends, but are really caring guys when they are away from them.
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reader, romany +, writes (22 July 2010):
 There are lots of reasons why he hasn't kissed you yet,Has he kissed anyone before? He may be scared,
Perhaps he is waiting for you to do it.
Does he have braces, or do you?
I don't think his reluctance in kissing you is because of you, I think he has a problem with kissing, whether it be through fear or insecurities.
When you say he dont want to kiss you because of his friends, what do you mean? and also what do you mean about showing off infront of his friends, what is he doing?
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reader, Over..worried.  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 Maybe try to get him alone, with out his friends around. Get close into a hug, look up at him and move in for the kiss. If you don't want to kiss his first maybe try to hint like ..... you know you can kiss me if you want to .... ok so maybe thats not a hint? But you'll know if he doesn't want to kiss you ask why. If it's a really lame answer. Leave .
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