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Afraid of having a boyfriend!

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Question - (22 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *hickapea123 writes:

so i get extremly nervous when i get ask out and always say no even if i like the guy. i know you guys are going to tell me just say yes but i wouldnt know how to react when i see him! ive oviouly never had a bf but i have told everyone even my bestfriend a lie and told them i have had bfs and that ive kissed guys. but its all lies :( so my first kiss ended up being a girl playing truth or dare because i had said i had my first kiss that doesnt bother me since then i have kissed guys just not gone out with them... it seems i feel more comfortable staying friends for some reason? i have never gotten to making out because i always make up an excuse even though i want to. i feel uncomfortable when i go to the mall or somewhere and im with my parents and there is a hot guy i try not to look just incase my parents see me. and i dont think i am the prettiest thing i have a small gap between my front teeth so i feel a lack of confidence... i have dirty blonde straight hair baby blue eyes i am popular people tell me im pretty but their my friends. and i am afraid to say yes to any of my guy friends because what if it was a bet or something i dont wanna get hurt... i know i need braces but i have to get a route canal first so i have been avoding trying to get braces :/ adviceeeee?

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A female reader, johannabanana United States +, writes (22 July 2010):

johannabanana agony auntYou can't fall unless you first take a leap and how do you know someone won't catch you? Give it a try... Bottle up your fear for a second and if you can't say the word Y-E-S! Just nod your head to indicate yes.

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