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writes:i think my ex of 20 years of abuse is stalking me. me and our 18 year old son have left the area so he doesnt know where we live. the last time i was with him 18 months ago he had scratched my car and i involved the police and he recieved a small fine and was advised to leave me alone. after that i recieved bills for him at my address, he tried to delay my divorce which i eventually got. we then left the area. i have seen him once a few months ago stood in a call box for over an hour near to where i work. and then i started to recieve funny phone calls about 1 every 3 weeks to my mobile phone. i have had this number a long time as too many people know the number for me to keep messing around and changing it. i think it is him making these stupid calls and just keep ignoring it. will he realize that i am not interested if i just keep ignoring him and give up eventually and whats the point of doing funny phone calls in the first place?
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 Don't ignore him, he is loony and you can't ignore loony people. I say get the police involved. Off course, they won't arrest him but you need to have all this on record. He's obsessed with you, and that might cause him to do crazy things.
Don't dare ignore him.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 June 2009):
He's trying to intimidate you.
His whole big thing was having power over you and making you scared so you'd be his.
So he's doing what he's always done... scared you a bit and then you apologise and come back to him.
Ignore him and if he does ANYTHING more than make silent phone calls etc then call the police. It is not worth messing around with men like this and trying to deal with it yourself.
If he's calling from a phone box then just answer the phone and when you know it's him, don't hang up but just place the phone in a drawer and get on with some work. He's the one who'll be spending cash to scare the inside of your desk.
Good Luck!! xx
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