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reader, romany +, writes (28 June 2010):
He'll be mega peeved that your making a problem, and breaking something that he feels isn't broken, he cut his emotional ties from you, when you became his FWB.
So you could lose him, but if you ask him, you'll get your answer, and if its good, then....horay....
But either way your gonna have to accept that the FWB part of you two, has got to end, you've obviously started to develope feelings for him.
I suppose if you tell him, and he walks away, your gonna hurt, but it'll be over and you'll know you gave him the opportunity and was true to yourself, and you'll not be suffering the 'what ifs' and the 'if only's' in your grieving period.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 June 2010):
Not a chance. FWB relationships nearly never go further. If he wasn't interested in anything other than sex before, chances are he won't be now. I think it's probably best to let him go now.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (28 June 2010):
Sorry, but most likely the answer is no.
If he really cares about you and breaking up with you would be a huge loss, then he might. But he would resent your forcing him to do it.
If he was comfortable as he was and didn't want anything beyond that, he'll go away.
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