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writes: If a guy really likes you he will get your number from a mutual friend? Is this always correct. Reply to this Question
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reader, sm0ke +, writes (8 July 2006):
 No
A loy og guys are very shy when it comes to asking women on a date /for their number. Say it to yourself and then ask yourself how it sounds "Will you go out with me?" "Can I have Your Number?".
A lot of men / boys think it sound stupid saying it like that and may try to get your attention in other ways.
I personally waited for 7 months before finally getting with the girl i wanted, it didnt happen in the pub where we all drank, we even talked to each other in this time and was friends with my sister.
We didnt get together till a party some months later and lasted for a good 8 weeks whihc was a record at the time for me..
Next time you see this guy, speak to him, guage his body movements, and the way he looks at you, guys do stare in differing ways for lust, love, fascination etc, its a case of working it out.
Or grab the bull by the horns as it were and ask for his number, were not in the dark ages anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2006): its not always correct if he's shy then he will ask your mate if he likes you that much he will pluck yup the courage to ask you himself anyway i hope all goes well in the futer bibixxxx feamale (11-13)
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (8 July 2006):
 Not always, depends on who the person is. Sometimes they wouldn't want a 'mutual friend' to know they fancied you in case the feeling wasn't mutual and they looked a fool. Sometimes they are too shy to ring you up if you were to tattoo your number to their face. Sometimes it is easier to ask someone out face to face as you can read their emotions like flirting behaviour from the way they are with you. If you like someone, put yourself in places he is going to be, have conversations with him, and if you are feeling brave ask him out for a drink...he may even be thankful that he isn't put through the ordeal of having to do the asking!
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reader, Little_Laura +, writes (8 July 2006):
 No. He could be shy, it might not have occoured to him - the list goes on. Get his number, text him. Just say something like "hey, its [your name] me and a group of friends are going to see [enter film]. Want to come with? xxx" or something like that. Or just hey, it's [name]how are you? xxx" Texting is easier then calling - go for it. xxx
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