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writes: i fancy this 14yr old girl. im 16. wen i get to know her more i will ask her out. if she does'nt like me will this scare her away? i mean i'm not sure if she has even thought about me! we only met for 3 hours on a mates birthday so far! but after i known her for longer iz it a good idea? will the age gap scare her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2006): yeh 2 yrs nufin just maks me laugh as me i also like a guy 2/3 yrs yuonger than me he's 13 and i've just turned 16 but that doesn't stop neither of us my mates at first used 2 say he is still a kid and i used 2 get p----d off wid that and now he gets on so well wid me mates they have never mentioned the fact he's younger than me.well thing wid me and him is we are so close and all dat and he shows me all da good sihns .everyone at school thinks were goin out but the fact is we ain't .waitin 4 him 2 say it.as there are other girls who like him need 2 get them off the scene .
so overall i feel it ain't gonna scare her so what 2 yrs isn't dat bad and if it does scare her move on and find someone your age da .if my crush didn't be scared of the age gap i feel urs shouldn't.well maybe da fact that she is a gal and she might be shy mean somefin.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (25 October 2006):
 Again, following your follow up (lol) if your friends can't cope with you being happy...what's their problem? If you are happy they should support you, talk to them and find out WHY such a tiny age gap is a problem. Have they ever Tlaked to this girl, like, properly???
Give it a try
Phoebe xxXxx
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reader, miss help +, writes (22 October 2006):
 get to know her better then ask her if a older person asks her out and the age is round 16-17 what would she say if she says yes ask her out if shes says no move on and fine someone your own age
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 October 2006):
 I doubt the age gap will scare her, when I was 14 I was with a 17 year old and I loved it :o)
Please remember she is below the legal age for anything sexual so if you do go after this girl sleeping with her will be illegal and she maybe a virgin still so she may shy away from you thinking you want to sleep with her when she isn't ready for that and to be honest if you want to be with her you have to be prepared to wait the 2 years for her to be legally old enough to be having sex.
Good luck :o)
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (22 October 2006):
Hey,
no, i don't think it's that much of an age gap. It's two years! My parents are 9 years apart,small age gaps like 2 years hardly make a difference for some couples. I like the idea of a 16 year old boy wanting to get to Know the girl before he asks her out, she'll be lucky to have you!
Just take it steady, get to know her a bit and start to hang out as friends, like meeting up placs with all your friends and just chilling out, that kinda thing. Then, when you think you are both ready, ask her out. Love is full of mistakes and disapppointments, but it's also full of good stuff too. If you take the laep of faith and treat her right, there's hardly a thing to stop her saying yes.
Do what you think is right.
Hope this helped,
Phoebe xxXxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe age gap is not a problem for me. but for my friends it is!
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (22 October 2006):
 2 years is nothing. My ex girlfriend was 14 (me 16) for the time i was with her (she was 2 days off being in the next year down at school, so was the youngest in her year) get to know her, know what sort of person she is, if you click, then go for it. Dont let 2 years be a problem. Good luck with it, hope it goes well
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