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writes:Well me and my wife have been together for 8yrs this june.Well she has exchanged pics of herself online b4 and i know that and we patched that up i thought.Me and her talked and we both got the point that she is a stay at home mom we really cant go out with friends as we have little kids.So she said it was to just get away from all the stress and all that ok well.Just the other day seemed like something has changed with her the way she act.Remember she did this b4 a few yrs ago.So i asked she was like no nothing she just been tired from having low iron.Well after the fight i was like tell me the truth we she said she been in chat rooms again only talking to people about her day and theres.Well she made a new screen name to chat did use the one i know of and she tells me it none of my biz cause i wanna spy on her.Well i was over there the other day and noted a webcam next to the pc i asked her about it she said she took pic of the drawing she made that was next to the pc.Its like every time i talk about this it makes her mad at me.pls and thx for the help
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2010): Ok heres a update
I have tried all the things PB said nothing worked.I heard from a few people she is talking to some guy online and he making her happy right now.I asked he to pls tell me the truth and it always there no one and all that.Im not staying there anymore and didnt stay there when i posted the first post,It like when i go there to see the kids she gets mad now and every thing,I just think i deserve the truth after 8 years and not some bs game.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (23 May 2010):
 Well, it is difficult to tell whether your wife has actually done anything wrong this time or whether your past experience has led you to make the assumption this time around that she has.
I would certainly sit down with your wife and try and talk this through as calmly as possible. Don't make it out to be a big deal as she may not have done anything wrong.
Let her know that you know that things have been slow lately and that you would like to spice up the relationship a little, get out more and do things more as a family, perhaps?
Let her know that a picture is ok, what is done is done, but that as her husband you might be hurt by this and would never do the same to her.
If it comes out that she is cheating on the internet, suggest some form of counseling as you seem like you care for your wife a great deal.
If you appear to be spying on her she will get defensive as she will think you don't trust her and this could push her in the wrong direction....this is a really hard situation to be in.
Calmly explain your worries and fears to her and try and work it out.
I wish you all the luck in the world! xx
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