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writes: My wife cheated on me while we were married and now that we are divorced,I have moved on & met another girl who I find hard to trust, not because I have any reason not to trust her, but because I feel she's all I've got. I live with her as well.Please help.
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Steve, writes (10 February 2005): Start with a clean slate. Why let a poisoned relationship destroy a new one?It is difficult, very difficult when one is hurt badly by a betrayal. But we must have faith in other people otherwise just lock yourself into your house and never come out again. The pain and scarring of being cheated on is severe and deep. Generally if it has never affected you then you don't understand. It can affect or rather, harm you terribly. But it was one person that inflicted that pain, don't let the next person that comes along suffer for it. The trick is to start anew.... I didn't say it will be easy but cut the new squeeze some slack.... it isn't her fault!Let them in!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2005): HiI know exactly how you feel, im in the same position. My guess is that when she is not around or out with friends you are wondering what she is up to all the time and can't get it out of your head.I have learned tho that you can totally tie yourself up in knots about this. I found myself being funny with him and not talking to my guy, just because of what he might have done and it's all been in my head.Talk to your girlfriend and explain how you are feeling and what you have been through, if you haven't already.Try not to waste precious time worrying about something that is not even happening.I know it's easier said than done at first, but you will get past this.Good luck and be happy!!!
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