A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Six months ago my wife started commenting about some 'well hung' guys at her gym she goes to 3 - 4x a week. I wasn't worried about it and since she seemed to be always horny when she came home which lead to great sex, I haven't said anything. Eventually hearing it all the time I figured I need to do something... I bought a penis pump to help me get a little bigger and used it while she was gone at her class. About two months ago, she found my little toy and asked me to show how it works. I've never seen her so excited and before she would let me get it off, I exploded. fast forward our 'date night' is now once a week, she insists that I pump and never lets me take it off until I explode. She also just bought an auto pump... I've asked for normal sex but its please, just one more time. advice needed
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reader, kenny +, writes (24 May 2021):
Why is it ok for her to come home and mention well hung guys at the gym?. then by doing so giving you a complex and then going out to get a penis pump.
Its no different to you going to the gym, or where ever and saying there were these woman training earlier and their breasts were amazing. Would she then rush out for a boob job?.
Don't know much about penis pumps, but i would strive a guess that they are sexual gimmicks, and a total waste of money.
You said that she comes home horny and it leads to great sex. Sounds like something is going ok then, so why the penis pump?.
Ditch the pump and keep giving here great sex as you are doing.
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 May 2021):
Toss the pump.
It backfired.
Be honest with her. Tell her that you are done with the pump and that you have the penis you have.
I presume you haven't talked about "the perfect" vagina or tittes (that she doesn't exactly have? - because the "perfect pair is a fantasy more than anything, same with the "well hung" huge penis).
Find something else fun for the bedroom. could try a vibrating co@k-ring? Could be pleasant for you both.
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