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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Why would someone be ok with you one day then ignore you the next day! There is a man I know from work, well superior that and wee seem to get on even flirt sometimes. Then other days he ignores me, I mean he doesn't say hi when he sees me, makes no effort to stop and talk. Then others it is as though we have known each other for years and he chats away. What's his deal! Tbh. I have only been with the company 5months as part of a uni placement but has been working there for 15 years. My workmates have told me to be careful with him. One even said, " you don't want to be one of his girls." What ever that means. As she also told me he is married. what am I doing to offend this man? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 December 2014):
 You have done nothing wrong.
The guy is playing games. With you and other young women. He likes to make them feel "special" and then ignore a bit, to make her feel like she did something wrong and has to try harder.
If he is married, I would STOP flirting and not hang around him, unless it's work related. Like your co-workers said.. "one of his girls" - you can't be so naive that you don't know what that means.... If you really are though, it means he like to have something YOUNG on the side for a few rolls in the hay. It's NOT about love. It's about him stroking his ego by USING young girls. He sees them as a "tissue" - - he "blows his nose" (sex) and then toss it moving on to the next young thing.
Just BE polite, professional and keep the flirty stuff out of the office.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2014): If he's married and people are saying "don't be one of his girls", then I would stay the heck away!Sounds like he's playing around at work with girls for an ego-boost. I find guys that are very hot and cold like that, are usually guys that don't care about other girls feelings very much, like a player really...a mature adult man would be polite to you consistently and would never attempt to ignore you purposely. Maybe the question is, why do you want his attention? He is married, so who cares if he ignores you. Sorry, if he wasn't married then maybe there would be a reason for you to figure this out, but I don't think there is in this case.
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