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writes:yesterday i fought a girl becaues she said she didnt like me and wanted to fight me. We fought twice in 1 day soo today everybody saying i lost.But how did i lose when she was the one on the ground and i got more hits?? i dont understand...everybody said they was there when i know they wasnt.Why do people lie for a girl they dont even know like that??Why do people like makin me feel sad n wanna cry?? They call me names,pick on how skinny i am,how i have no butt or tits...when i was younger that stuff didnt matter to me cause i knew i was pertty,and smart but now i look in the mirror and call myself ugly.I was strong now im weak.I cant tell my mom cause she tells me the same thing and i know she means well but it doesnt help....i dont think anyone can understand my pain anymore......what should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 September 2011):
 Isn't there a zero tolerance policy for fighting in your school?? If your teacher caught wind of you two, you would both be suspended maybe even expelled.
Although I do commend you for standing up for yourself. That's something to be proud of. You definitely showed strength there.
Kids will make up stories to make this bully feel better about the fight because they're either her croonies or they fear her too.
Like Caring Guy stated the issue isn't about people lying, it's about you being bullied. You need to tell a counselor at school or a trusted teacher about your bully. Nowadays, bullies can be dangerous and harmful to your mental health.
Here's the thing about bullies, they may appear tough on the outside but they're just as insecure as you are right now on the inside.
So don't let her win. You are pretty and smart! And for the record no one has boobs or a rear end when you're 13-15. Your body just started developing and your not finished growing!!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2011):
You're being bullied. That's what's happening. And I know, because it happened to me at school, which is why even now I consider school nothing but a necessary evil.
Truth is, you are pretty and smart. The problem is that other people are jealous of it. That's usually what happens to nice, pretty, smart people. That's why they're lying about the fight, about whether they were there and such. Because it's easier to pick on someone they're jealous of.
It's really important now, that you go to your mother/father/teachers and tell them straight that you're being bullied and that you need their help stopping it. It took me 7 years to get help, and if I'd done it sooner perhaps it would have stopped sooner and I wouldn't have wound up utterly hating school and most of the people there.
I promise you there are people who know exactly how you feel and how crap it is to feel alone. I can also tell you that there are people out there who will really want to help you. Even your mum, who you think doesn't understand, will step up to the mark if you say they're assaulting you and bullying you. Your teachers will too.
Get some help to stop these people treating you this way. You don't deserve it.
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