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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay so me and my male best friend were foolin around a little and we ended up having dry sex and him fingering me. He has a girlfriend whom he's been dating for 7 months and he told me a few days back that he loved her. If he loves her why would he do this to me? I'm not saying it's all his fault because it's not. It's part my fault too. But then he said it was wrong what we did and not to speak of it. My friends are telling me he could like both you and his girlfriend or he could have just been using me. What do you guys think?
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reader, OldiesGyrl  +, writes (15 June 2011):
Honestly, he's a sleeze-ball. There he was participating in those acts with you while knowing that he has a girlfriend. If he truly loves his girlfriend, and respects her then he wouldn't have cheated on her with you. Overall, that's basically what he did. But he could only do to you what you had allowed him to do, and consented to.
And on your part, you should know better; especially knowing that he's already involved with someone. If it were you, then I'm sure you wouldn't be too thrilled about your boyfriend having been intimate with someone else.
I'd view him as untrustworthy, and there is no telling who else he could be hooking up with. Let it go and move on.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (15 June 2011):
 if he had sex with you he likes you and he probably does love his GF sex and love are to different things you probably have a favorite outfit but its nice to on something new....For guys its easier to separate sex from emotions and all that stuff... why did you let him have sex with you when he has a GF.... basically i think you should do what he said you both tried something you never had before and its over dont make a big deal out of it
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