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Why would my friend say that we are better as friends, and later start coming on stronger?

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Question - (11 April 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Why would a fella say to you that we are better as mates and then start coming on stronger when i told him that's ok

we have been friends for years and few months back said we had feelings for each other and he was going to dump gf for me and then he said that to me.

We talk every single day and have become good friends and close.

Thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2013):

He doesnt want you to move on. He enjoys the attention AND is hoping to get no strings sex.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (11 April 2013):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntLet me extend to you one of the secrets of "guyhood."

IF we can convince a girl that we are great/close/solid "friends" ..... and THEN can convince her (you!) hat we are so close that it's impossible to avoid being intimate...... THEN, we have maneuvered you to that classic arrangement - Nirvana, really - wherein YOU don't question our sincerity, whilest WE have gotten you to believe that that "sincerity" is SINCERE.... but, really, all it does is make you available to us for $ex.....

Simple, no?

Good luck....

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A male reader, liberal7676 United States +, writes (11 April 2013):

Bronzed Adonis has hit the nail on the head. He enjoys the attention. That`s all. Move on.

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A male reader, bronzed adonis United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2013):

bronzed adonis agony auntBecause he enjoys the feeling of someone wanting him, and does not want it to stop. Move on. He has a girlfriend.

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