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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'll be the first to admit that I am being strung along by my ex-girlfriend. I know that everyone here would suggest that I leave her alone for both of our sakes, but I'm not that strong and I am head-over-heels for her. That being said, she has a new boyfriend who was her boyfriend prior to our relationship.A few nights ago she asked me to come over to her house to watch her favorite TV show. I obliged (I know you all probably think I'm nuts for this), but we are trying to be friends, so it's not out of the ordinary per se. While we were sitting there not really close or anything, we started talking about our feelings towards each other. We both admitted that we miss each other more than we thought and she began to doubt her choices. She told me that she was fighting intense urges to jump on me and make out like we once would have. She also said that this separation and transition process has been extremely difficult. We ended the night holding each other; neither one of us wanting to let go.My question is why would she torment herself by asking me over when she knows we both have intense feelings for each other and that it would be a struggle to be next to each other without physical/romantic contact? I understand the same question could be asked of me, but I don't have another relationship to think about. What does this all mean?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 November 2008):
 She is just playing with fire is all. If she really wanted to end all of this drama with you, she wouldn't be putting herself in the position to create it. Help her and yourself by just not going over to see her. It's torturing you and it's giving her a chance to play games and string you along. She just likes the attention.
Be strong and find a lady who is available to give you all of her energy and love!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (20 November 2008):
Because she is as silly as you are.
She's putting herself in situations where she could cheat on her boyfriend, and why? Because she wants to see you and feel that tension.
You know what you have to do. Leave her alone and try to think about your life as a single guy rather than just thinking about getting your next fix of her.
Good Luck!! xx
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