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writes:Heres my problem..I have a hard time meeting guys. I am kind of picky but I just know what I want and dont want. I was so excited when I met this guy, and he felt the same way. We talked everyday for a few weeks (went out a couple of times)then all of a sudden, I noticed I was doing all the calling and he just wasnt interested in the conversation. So I stopped calling, he never called me. This was about 3 weeks ago. Then just recently I found out he is seeing this new girl and it just tears me apart. I dont want to sound like a you know what, but Im prettier and in a lot better shape so I just dont know why he would want her. She is also 17 while we are both 21. It makes me so sad just to think about. Should I just forget him or give him a call? I know there are guys just as good out there, but they must not live near me! Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (6 February 2006):
 hi again Picky, good to get an up date, did you go out at the weekend and find a hot guy, if not why not, have some fun, keep it safe but go get your self a man that appreciates you and will treat you like the lovely girl you are.
Dont let your standards drop.
Let me know when you meet prince charming.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmm well I guess for an update, long story short, we don't talk anymore and he is going out with this girl. It's like I never exsisted, oh well..there are always hotter guys :)
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reader, mystify +, writes (4 February 2006):
 who can explain why men like or dont like certain qualitys in girls , what i do know is that it is all good tht you have such a positive self image and with that sort of confidence dont worry youll have them at your feet in no time
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2006): im going through the same thing but the way i look at it is if they think this other person is better then they must be rely rong!!!!!!!!!
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reader, chearfullcharlie +, writes (28 January 2006):
 Dont get your self down girl! Hes a fool to be missing out on you!! Pull yourself together get all your mates round and ither have a girlie night out or girlie night in. Whatever you do just have a little fun..show him what hes missingg. Out there some were is your soal mate x
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reader, smeedle +, writes (28 January 2006):
hi Picky, you are right to take your time in choosing relationships, but have some fun doing it, not all dates have to turn into marriage, you kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince, it sounds like you need to widen your circle of friends, go to new places, think about were you could meet new people, take up a sport or go places you dont normally go.
You wont meet your prince staying in!
Forget this bloke, thats a closed chapter, this kind of thing happens, next time it will be you doing the dumping that is life.
Have fun, break hearts and dont grow up too soon, remember you are fantastic and it will take a good man to match up to you, but please do just enjoy life and take the knocks with the good stuff. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2006): Well, you say the guy you met knows what he wants, and what he doesn't want. So this will sound harsh but, it seems like he wants this other girl, not you.
I think you should be happy though, it's better to break it off after a few weeks, than a few years.
So my advice is to forget him. Don't worry about being Picky... it's a good thing. Just don't carry it too far. Remember relationships are about compromise!
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