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writes:Why would a married man in a relationship have a vasectomy and then tell me about it.I have been working with a professional guy and he had his kids a little later in life (40's). He has a much younger wife.A strong attraction grow between us but nothing happened. I have now left the company. One day while in a meeting with him he told me blatantly that he had just had the "snip". I felt really embarrassed when he told me asit was such a private matter. I responded by saying "that was brave of you!"Is this a sign that things are not right in a relationship? I have been seeing someone for 27 years and who is similar age to this guy and can not imagine for a minute even suggesting it to him.Any comments appreciated. Thank you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 May 2011):
 possibly he's much like my boyfriend who has "no filter' and will tell anyone anything about his life.... we are working on what's TMI and what's not.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 May 2011):
 I know many guys who have had the "snip snip" I know even more guys that OUGHT to have had it.
Honestly, I would have said, that is a little TMI for my taste.
Maybe.. it was his way of saying that you wouldn't get knocked up if you two went physical? Maybe he just wants to make sure he's still "all man"...
Kind of hard to say. Personally it wouldn't bother me, but I would find it odd for a guy to throw it out there.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (26 May 2011):
 You are playing with fire if even ENTERTAIN why this man is telling you these personal details.
Instead of speculation, stick with the FACTS.
He is married. It does'nt MATTER if things are not right in the relationship.
You are in a committed relationship as well.
Move on with YOUR life and live HAPPY. Disregard any "mysteries" why he may be acting this way.
Best Wishes.
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