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writes:Is this a tactic for a abusive man to regain some control back after i ended our relatonship. I ended a 7 yr relationship recently as me partner was verbally, emotionally and phyiscally abusive to me. We have 2 young kids and he currently still lives in my home, although he is leaving very soon. There is no interaction between us at all, he sleeps on the sofa. We havent spoken for 4 wks since his last outburst in which i told him it was over. He is moving out soon but recently he told my 7 yrs old his password for his facebook knowing full well she could tell me. I know i shouldnt of looked but i did and he has listed his ex partner as his partner now. I have no idea if they are an item, there does always seem to be a pattern when in the past we have fallen out and he has brfriended her. Is it true that abusive use tactics to try and get you back into there games. Why would you start a new relationship with an ex when you still havent moved out of your other exs home?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): "Why would you start a new relationship with an ex when you still havent moved out of your other exs home?"Why is your abusive ex still living in your home when he's your ex and he's abusive?Why do you care if your abusive ex has listed a previous ex as his partner on Facebook when he's your ex and he's abusive?Why don't you understand that if your abusive ex does somehow manage to weasel his way back into a previous ex's affections, it's entirely to your benefit since you and your kids will be much better off when he's sleeping at somebody else's house in somebody else's bed instead of sleeping at your house on your sofa because he's your ex and he's abusive?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (6 February 2012):
 This is the key phrase of your submittal: "Why would you start a new relationship with an ex when you still havent moved out of your other exs home?"
The short answer is: Because she lets him do so.
P.S. The long answer is also, "because she lets him do so."
YOU are in control.... but you can't be in control since you seem content to cede control to him...
Good luck....
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