A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:why would a guy say he wasn't wearing a condom and ask if he could let go when he was in fact wearing one? He said it was just to heighten the heat of the moment but it freaked me out and I didn't understand that.
View related questions:
condom Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, natasia  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 I think he wanted to see how you reacted, too. And I think he is probably turned on by the idea of unprotected, natural sex, and maybe would love to do that instead of having to use a condom all the time. (hell, I understand - it's much nicer!! She says, now 9 months pregnant lol)
Maybe you should think about going on the pill, then you could have sex without condoms, so long as neither of you have any STDs. ?
I don't think he was being weird or anything - I think he just picked a slightly funny way to bring up the fact that he wants it au naturel ...
A
female
reader, MissKin +, writes (20 March 2008):
 I'd be rather concerned about the fact that you let him have sex with you when you thought he wasn't wearing one? Is that what happened or have i misinterpreted the question? If he wasn't wearing one, you could have gotten pregnant or caught a disease or anything, i'm sure you know this but i thought i'd throw it in anyway.
I think he was maybe just trying to make it all seem a bit more dangerous and what not but at the same time wanted to respect your body. it is rather odd though and if it freaked you out, simply tell him you'd appreciate it if he didn't do it again. You have to respect the fact that he wore one without you making him though.
...............................
A
male
reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Bucking bronco?
Just remembered an old joke, do not follow the link if you still have hopes that some men are human deep down.
*** Text but NSFW
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=bucking+bronco
He might just have thought it was sex-talk and not considered you would re-act this way, talk it over but I wouldn't make a capital case out of it.
...............................
A
female
reader, Sarrah +, writes (20 March 2008):
Maybe he wanted to heaten up the moment but it is not respectfull to you!!!
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Maybe coz he's an idiot. Find someone new.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Actually, maybe it was because he wanted to see what you'd say?
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Jeez, I have no idea. Crazy..
...............................
|
