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Why would a guy say he missed me and then not try to see me at all?

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Question - (9 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

rightio i'll try n keep this short coz i hav a tendency to ramble

i'v been with my bf for near 2months but things feel kinda hot n cold

ok ok were not totally serious but i guess thts coz we NEVER get to see each other - and we even work together!!

i started working there in august, n started gettin closer in mid october and since october weve seen each other i think mayb 4 or 5 times outside of work - not inc staff nights out - been together since nov 12th

so anyways apparently hes liked me since we met (he told his mate in work - lets call him mark) so yea marks a good mate of mine too, my bf took ages to get the courage to ask me out - didnt think a girl like me would go for a guy like him etc - i think hes so gorgeous n sweet thou

hes always calling me beautiful etc but then hes not really enthusiastic bout meetin up n stuff

mayb coz i push him away if were kissing really passionatly n stuff n gettin carried away on breaks in work? hands wander yea but i dont want us to hav sex in the staff room - well at least not the 1st time lol

also a convo we had on msn, he'd previouly said to me bout me talkin to mark bout my problems n not him, so i tried to chat but then he had to go, so i said to him thts y i talk to mark coz he always has to go or something when i try n tlk to him, but then he went all quiet - said it sounded like i would rather b with mark - which i dont at all and i reassured my bf tht hes the guy i like n wanna b with

also a lot of the guys in work make jokes bout me n stuff, not spiteful stuff coz were all mates, my bfs like mr popular there lol - but they tell it to him too - like tht i'm 'well known' on my estate n i flirt with the guys next door - when it couldnt b more opposite i'v only ever been with 1 other guy n tht was long term. i just hope he isnt taking this to heart

i dont expect him to organise it all going out n stuff , hes just always busy with work - they rota us in seperatly now coz they dont trust us to work propperly - were not the only couple in work either so its not like they hav a problem with

i just wanna know, y would a guy tell me he missed me n then not try n see me at all? it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009):

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Whenever I ask he's busy though, I asked him to a mate's party but he said no.

Tonight we were supposed to see each other but when I text him to find out when I got no reply - no reply when I tried to call him few hours later :-(

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