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writes:Why would a girl ask a guy why he doesn't flirt with her when she knows that he is in a serious relationship with a live-in girlfriend? I find it strange and rather disrespectful. Is this something that people generally do? Because I don't think I would ever ask anyone that, whether they were in a relationship or single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your responses. It was kind of what I thought, although I thought she was being more conceited than flirting. At least I hope. My boyfriend told me when it happened, and when I asked him what he said, he said "I don't see a reason to". So he didn't flirt back and from what I can tell, he doesn't flirt with her. Only thing is that they work together. And some of the people from the building including them will get together. I've met her a few times too. So it's not like it's some random stranger. It just aggravates me because she acts so nice and I think everyone thinks she's really nice, yet she acted like it was strange that my boyfriend doesn't flirt with her (I also think she was in a relationship at the time too, although it's hard to tell since she's on again off again and sometimes dating other people at the same time). And my boyfriend just shrugs it off as an innocent question, which is even more aggravating. Anyways, he doesn't flirt with her and is devoted to me, so I'm pretty happy for the most part.
Thanks everyone.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 because she wants to flirt with him and wants him to flirt back?
it's not about what SHE says or does... it's got to be about how he DEALS with her...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Because said girl think the world revolves around her. Maybe she is VERY used to being hit on and when it doesn't happen she is going to question it.
If you were single and you met a guy you liked, you would want to know if he was single or taken, wouldn't you?
And honestly, MANY guys and girls don't stop flirting when they are in a relationship, sadly.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Yes, it's strange and disrespectful... but a woman who is a strumpet will do that, nonetheless..... The greater question is whether or not the guy will fall victim to the request that he flirt. If he does, then he really isn't all that serious about that live-in relationship, is he?
Good luck....
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Some people have no manners, but that's not what is happening. The girl likes him and she wants him for herself, she doesn't give a damn about his girlfriend. Some women are like that.
If it's your boyfriend and you trust him, then don't worry. Women can flirt, but it doesn't mean he has any interest in them at all. He probably thinks they look sad and sorry. If it's not your boyfriend, then don't worry about, what other people choose to do with their life is really up to them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011): Because she's flirting with him and (perhaps) because you weren't there at the time....but you probably already knew that. It's not my personal style, but for some people and apparently this girl, it apparently works...
I would worry about him and how he responds to these sorts of gestures, not women who hit on him. If he doesn't give them the time of day, why should you bother?
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