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female
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anonymous
writes: I have been married for 3 years and two of those years he will not touch me why is that? I try and he always telling me that i am to demanding so i stoped it and never touched him for three months when i went to touch him the other night he told me he was not in the mood for it. He will never show me any emotion or anything if we do have sex it is only on his terms and it is not even all that he gets setified and that is it for another few months what is wrong with me
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010): Darling there is noting wrong with you,The question is what wrong with him?
there can be several reason for this kind of behavior in men some of the most common ones are; he could be having an affair. He could be masturbating more that usual. He mite not find you attractive anymore. He could be gay and don't know how to come out. He could have some kind of rectal disfunction.
What ever the problem mite be, you two need to sit down and sort it out. You will need to be totally open and honest with each other because something like this will not go away.I will drive a bigger wedge between you, leaving you nothing but anger, frustration, total mistrust and despair.
You are only in the third year of your marriage and besides this has gone on long enough. Be sportive with each other and TALK...
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 September 2010):
Nothing is wrong with you. There is definitely something up with him. Likely he has some issues that need to be worked out. Have you tried telling him how this makes you feel? How did he react when you did?
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