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reader, Azula  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 Oh...Then why not just set your mind on his efforts of helping you about the designs and everything rather than his absence.Don't compare yourself to others. Everyone is unique and in different situations. He might have his reasons. Try an open talk but please maintain the atmosphere of love and comfort every time.Well there are other things to put in mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo she isn't selling 21,ooo worth of product she has 450 distributors underneath her. Its network marketing its not illegal its a new company n the us but ts been in mexico for 19 years. This isn't about what I need help with though. I just want to get other peoples opion. Should I not feel embarassed or mad that he's not by myside? I feel alone when I'm there by myself without him and everyone else has there husband there to support them. I feel embrassed when I have to explain that he doesn't want to come with me. I always make up some other excuse for
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reader, Azula +, writes (9 July 2009):
I found your update an answer to mine so here's my reply back. It will not be long as the first one but please try to think it over. It may contain more messages than it looks like. That company could change your life forever and your life is him, then it's true. In order for you to have the company he must/might change FOREVER. It can cause a great impact on him and that affects all of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI totally understand his pride.but this business is about to change our lifes Forever. I know this may sound un believeable but that month my mother made $21,000 in this company andshe has placed my in a position that I will be making the same in about 2 months time. I am sure he will beable to put his pride aside when its time to. Cash that check so I need him there with me now. Its really not a good look when your mother is one of the companys presidents and my man isn't there next to me I
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reader, Azula +, writes (9 July 2009):
Oh dear how long have you been married? how many children do you have?
You must understand your better half about this. His supports are only on the stuffs you have mentioned. It will not go further. I think you have the problem this time. He is one of the nicest husbands as i hear your story but consider his pride. His a man and would set off at something like that. Your missing one thing dear. That's the pride. Be considerate and be glad he helps you. Other men do not prefer to talk about that. And in front of the people that so big to ask.
I'm sorry but it is my opinion based on how I see things.
Hope you'll be able to see things this way.
Hope you understand.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 July 2009):
The only person who can answer this is him. Only he knows what he's scared of.
You may have to accept he has an issue and is willing to put that above you.
Whether you are willing to overlook this and move on, or whether you see this as a sign he may not be your perfect match is up to you.
Good Luck!! xx
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