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Why won't he ask me out? He keeps saying he will...

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Question - (22 February 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I'm a 17 year old female and I like this 19 year old guy. Well, I really like him and he likes me too, but the problem is he just treats me as just a "friend."

We liked each other for over 5 months and he won't ask me out and it's bothering me. We need to hang out since we met from a mutual friend. He said that he does want to hangout, but whenever I do want to he doesn't want to. He doesn't take the intiative either. He's only done that twice, but of course it didn't work.

I don't know what's going on, but it's bothering me A LOT. He told me that he will ask me out when we hang out in person sometime, but problem is he doesn't want to hang out right now. Part of the reason is because he's busy with work. I'm just afraid it will be the year 2007 and the situation will still be like this. Please help me out. Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006):

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Yeah, but he knows that I like him a lot. So I believe that the reason he wouldn't ask me out is because he can take his time since he knows that I like him very much. Also, another reason he won't ask me out is because we haven't hung out yet. That's the part that's bothering me the most. I really want to hangout with him, but he doesn't want to. At least not right now. Whenever I bring this up he gets pressured and kinda annoyed.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006):

I don't think this guy really knows what he wants. The fact that he hasn't asked you out yet is the reason why i'm saying that. I think if he really did like you, he wouldn't pass by the opportunity to ask you, because he wouldn't want to lose that chance.

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