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writes:why will women not date a leg amputee like me im 49 average looking and financially stable and treat them like a princess? thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (1 January 2009):
 You just haven't met the right one! Just be yourself and you will find her one day. Being an emotional cripple isn't easy either. I was one and I know first hand. I spent most of my life winging it but I don't give up and my persistance paid off. If you give someone the right place to be they will come. Like in the field of dreams...if you build it they will come. Think about it. I wish you the beat and I know that YOU CAN DO IT TOO!
Blessings,
Blue_Angel
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reader, Flawless29 +, writes (1 January 2009):
First, of all how do you approach the women that you are interested in? I do not believe there is anything wrong with you it is just something that you might not be doing correctly.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (1 January 2009):
Don't you worry about this hon. A person needs to like you for whom you are,with two legs or one! Try to take good care of youreself and hold onto your self-esteem. Any disability can make you feel a bit insecure or unattractive to others but trust me people are out there who WILL care. This might not be the day you will find your special lady, perhaps it will be tomorrow, or in the Spring but always rememeber that you will find her one day when you least expect it.
I am disabled, I had thyroid cancer, I am overweight due to having no thyroid, take tons of meds,my eyes are getting so bad I am pretty bad sighted now. Lots of other things are wrong and believe it or not I am a well cared for person just the same. I make friends all the time and guys think I am beautiful and I get asked out alot....but I have a b/f . *-0 I think they need to borrow my glasses! *LOL*
My point is that when you STEP BACK and let folks admire you sooner or later someone is going to STEP UP and TAKE YOUR HEART. Trust ole Angel here. I am nearly 52 and if I were single, well I would have a time deciding on another b/f. You see what they notice most of all(so they say) is my personality. So you just be who you are and let others learn to notice and accept you in their own time. You WILL find someone, you just have to get out there and get noticed. Take it as it comes and don't worry so much about having one leg. If you can see what I am saying let me add this, I have been asked many times if my teeth were false cause they are pretty white and straight. They aren't of course and a nice smile and set of nice teeth is the first thing I notice about a man's overall appearance. Now I will tell you that my b'f has to take seizure meds and it ruined his teeth. He doesn't have a top set at all, and I LOVE HIM TO PIECES! I love his personality and all the rest of him!You see it just takes the right person in the right place in time. 8-)
Remember that GOD says..IN MY TIME NOT THINE THUS SAYETH THE LORD.
Get out there and let people get to know you for the man you are. Chances are you will be surprised at what you will find when you only SEEK AND YE SHALL FIND....KNOCK AND THE DOOR SHALL BE OPENED UNTO YOU... iT'S COMMING JUST YOU WAIT AND SEE...
wISHING YOU THE BEST FOR THE NEW YEAR!
God bless,
Blue_aNGEL
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reader, okiefun48 +, writes (1 January 2009):
okiefun48 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont think its a lack of confidence on my part really. they just dont want to be seen with a cripple. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): I agree..confidence is a huge turn on to woman, it's makes us see you as a strong, happy, sucessful person, someone who can take care of us and possibly a future family. Instead of seeing yourself as a 'leg amputee'..focus on your strengths, and show others that this isn't something that you let effect your life. Or maybe you just havn't met the right woman..just don't give up and let your confidence shine through!
xXx
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reader, Jmo +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Forgive me if this sounds insensitive, but the fact that you refer to yourself as "a leg amputee like me" seems as though you may have some insecurities about how women perceive you. I could be wrong, but if I'm right, remember that there is nothing more unattractive to a woman than a lack of confidence.
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