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*omedaysoon
writes:Sorry it's a bit long but I want to provide as much info as possible.So there's this guy i go to college with. He's 25, I'm 18.There's something about him that just makes me insane! He's really flirty towards me (even though he is not like that with other girls, at least when i'm around) and will tease me about random stuff or private jokes between us, smile a lot and give me dirty looks.I thought there was something there and asked him out, but his reaction wasn't quite what i wanted it to be: he's just out of a 5 year long relationship and is enjoying being single again, and has never really seen me in a romantic kinda way. We agreed on no weirdness ad being friends like before.i think that after asking him out, my feelings should be pretty obvious and since it's unrequited it would be normal that he'd back off a little - or am i wrong? - but he keeps being flirting and teasing and it's really driving me crazy.why does he do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): He's not ready to commit, that's what you find attractive. you want him to commit to you. It's a game of cat and mouse. If you didn't want to commit, he would be more drawn to you.
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reader, Ankoku  +, writes (23 February 2008):
I think that the best thing for you to do is just ignore it the best you can. He already knows that you like him so if he ever wants to start dating you then he would ask you out. But if it's really bothering you don't be afraid to tell him. I mean if he's a good friend then he'll understand and he'll stop acting like that.
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