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writes:I know this is a dating forum, but I have a question about general friendships which is part of relationship issues.my friend's sister didnt invite me to her gathering at her husband's house. She has been married since one year, and I only have contact with her sister. I hang out with her and a group of friends. All of them were invited except me.I had no idea of this gathering until the girls blurted it out four times infront of me and my friend who is the host's sister. Even after them mentioning it, she didn't invite me to her sister's place. and the next day, she wants to invite me out as if to cover up for that. as if she felt guilty.why have I been outcasted. we have been friends since childhood. Im thinking her husband said something bad about me or she is just jealous.I dont know her husband personally but we were in the same close minded high school and they might have spoken bad about me coz I was openminded compared to them I dont know. but that was 18 years ago. or i might be wrong and she is just jealous.My brother was good friends with his brother and they had a huge fight in highschool and never spoke again until today.even though, I have been good friends since childhood and these petty things are not enough for her to shut me out!it makes me curious as to why?I'm educated and wellrounded and well dressed, why would they misjudge me.my friend wants to invite me out to cover up for her sister's gathering thing, but should i go out with her as if nothing happened, or should i act busy . very strange, you think u knew people, but u really dont!! how shocking!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (13 October 2011):
 I think that if you've known these people that long and never had any other reason to question the friendship you should just come right out and ask. Do it tactfully though, being careful not to sound accusing.
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