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Was it just a sex dream or something else?

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Question - (13 October 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *leeplessJealousy09 writes:

For the past week, I've been having numerous sex dreams. In one, My family and I had to hunt the vampires living underneath our floorboards. One of the vampires was that actor who plays Toby Cavanaugh in the show, Pretty Little Liars. I fell in love with him and we had sex which resulted in me being turned into a vampired too. A vampire baby was another result. I thought nothing of the dream because I watch a lot Vampire Diaries and read vampire fanfiction. Last night, I had a dream that I was making out with Alison Dilaurentes (another character from Pretty Little Liars) She bit me on my neck. Those dreams were just normal ones. I didn't think anything of it. I liked them.

I had a dream today while I was taking a nap. But I felt like I was half awake, because it was happenng right in my room. There was a dark figure looming over me. He never told me his name but I was certain that his name was Alex. I somehow just knew. He tried to have sex with me but I refused. I felt like I couldn't move but at the same time I kept pulling his face up to meet mine for a kiss. Alex shoved his tongue down my throat while he undressed me. For some reason, there was a computer keyboard in my bed. He put it under me because he said it would make me orgasm. (Yeah...I don't know) Then he was gone. The room was pitch black and I tried to open the door but my body felt so lifeless and limp. I finally opened the door and fainted before I could even pass the threshold. My sister was there getting ready to go out. (still a part of my dream) I tried to tell her what happened but I felt that she wouldn't understand.

My question is is that was I visited by some sexual ghost/demon? Some people have experienced that before. They call it an Incubus. They descend upon women in their sleep to have sex. I think it's just a myth but it felt so real. I mean, there were parts of the dream which were obviously just a dream! (The keyboard, fainting, trying to tell my sister)

There are times when I don't feel safe in my room. Like someone's watching me but I have been known to get a little too paranoid.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2011):

Hate to tell you, but succubai and incubai were only ever enivisioned to explain what you experienced... wet dreams.

Look, you weren't visited by demons. I would say that you are becoming too obsessed with vampires and occult matters and it is manifesting itself in a sexual manner, which you will have noticed is very prelevant in demonic enounters as depicted in television... there is always a sexual aspect to it.

So your mind is exploring these darker sexual fantasies in it's sleep while it goes about making repairs on your body.

There is nothing to fear from the dark, anymore than there is to fear from the day. It's the great unknown that you are feeling uneasy about, not mythical beasts and demonic entities.

I would suggest just letting the matter go or talking to a counsellor if you are really letting it get to you so much.

Flynn 24

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