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Why was my boyfriend grossed out by this?

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Question - (5 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 July 2010)
A female Australia age , anonymous writes:

Hi I would like to ask all you Aunts out there this question.Why would my boyfriend be grossed out by this.We had been mucking around and he started to put his finger down on my vagina.he then said your dry as,i turned to him and said no way and i put my own finger down there and then said to him feel it as it was quite wet.

Well he pushed my hand away from him and said no he would not which really upset me as we have a pretty good sex life and do oral ect on each other so i could not understand his carring on like he did.He thien said to me I like to do that sort of stuff to you myself,just the same it kinda upset me his comments they made me feel like i was dirty and that i'd done a disgusting thing,he loves to watch me touch myself so why freak out when i asked him to feel my wet finger.

We are both in our early 50s.thanks

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (5 July 2010):

Hi

its his issue not yours if he is happy watching you (like most men)why he would not feel your wet finger god know. have you asked him to explain.

i know i watch my wife and will jion in with her

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (5 July 2010):

AuntyEm agony auntNo idea!!!...you need to ask him. Its the only way your going to know what he thinks.

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