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writes:heyso the boy i like and i hung out today we were making out and then he started to finger me,it was his first time doing it and my first time being fingeredhe figered me for over an hour and i couldn't cumi have fingered myself many times, i do it almost once a weeki figered myself two days before i went to his house, is that why i couldn't cum? why couldn't i cum? what can i do to stop this from happening again? it was kind of embaressing thanks in advance! Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 February 2012):
 Fingering doesn't equate climax.
You need to show him where you DO enjoy being touched.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (2 February 2012):
 Because men aren't both with female genitals, they don't automatically understand that most women need clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm. You have to show him where and what your clitoris is and explain how you like to be touched.
Guys aren't mind readers. You have to communicate your wants.
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reader, kristina kumar  +, writes (2 February 2012):
 Hi,Well your wrong about having fingered yourself 2 days before it will NOT have affected it!! If u was cold this could have had a huge impact because your body's concentrating on getting warm rather than getting pleasure.It could also be he wernt doing it right, tell him how u like it (fast, deep, slow etc.) What I've found out is practice is key, play with yourself as much as u want trust me your body will get used to it and your get even wetter when he does it for u!!! I hope this helps and GOOD LUCK ;)
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