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WHY this fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by an "alfa-male" in front of my girlfriend??

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Question - (2 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I often have the fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by a stronger, muscular, handsomer, and more well-endowed man in front of my girlfriend.she tries to stop him, at first, but eventually he ends up woo-ing her into having sex with him because of his alpha-male characteristics.

this fantasy usually ends up with me somehow being persuaded into sucking on his "manhood" while my girlfriend watches, instructs, and encourages me to pay respect to him in this way.

sometimes in the fantasy she assists in holding me down because she wants to see him penetrate me. when i do get penetrated, i get scrutinized by my girlfriend because he usually succeeds in making me orgasm like a woman in this way.

why am i thinking these things? its getting harder for me to fantasize about anything else. any other comments or questions would really help!

Thanks!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008):

Try the "Our Hotwives Forum" website. It has a cuckold forum on it, you may find the answers you seek.

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A female reader, LilzDon'tKnow United States +, writes (2 September 2008):

LilzDon'tKnow agony auntLol well there is a question. Do you enjoy theese fantisies? If not you might wish to consult a phycic. If so, im not a profesional im just a 15 year old. But you might not even know it but maybe swing both ways? Idk Maybe the phycic can help ya though

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008):

Hey!

First I want to say that fantasies are normal and we all have our own quirky little ones!

If youre better trying to understand why you have this fantasy, it sounds to me like maybe youre a little bit mi-sexual and you want to explore that side of yourself, but at the same time you dont want to be the one responsible for doing things with men and enjoying it. basically it sounds to me like youre struggling with some homosexual desires and are trying to come to terms with them.

If you are happy with your girlfriend and want to be with her and not with a man, maybe you could try something like a "rude boy" from ann summers, which is basically a boy vibrator... or you could have her "force" you to suck on a dildo and then penetrate you with it, or you could have her make herself come with it.. whatever turns you on! But introducing a 3rd person will always cause problems!

Maybe if you act some of this fantasy out it will help you stop obsessing abuout it, and just add to your fun!

Just some thoughts!

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A female reader, ItsEmma United States +, writes (2 September 2008):

ItsEmma agony auntIt sounds like you have really low self-esteem. You just have to be confident that your girlfriend likes you for the way you are, and maybe you should look into how to love yourself more. (:

~Emma

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