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Why she didn't say I'm meeting my boyfriend? What does it mean?

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Question - (5 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 September 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, just after a second opinion please.

I met this stunning/amazing girl this week, we worked together well in a task we were set and got on really well (have similar interests, views, styles, experiences etc etc). When we had to head of she asked me if I was heading in the same direction as her etc, so we walked together to the place, whilst we were walking she asked for my number so we could meetup before the next session which was.

When we got to the place she said she was waiting for her friend, so I waited with her, she then said it was this guys she was meeting. It was REALLY cold and I wanted to offer her my coat, but didn't know if this guy was her bf or brother, or friend etc, so I laughed and said 'I would offer you my coat, but I don't your fella getting the wrong end of the stick and hitting me' and we laughed.

Whilst I was talking to her, we had real good eye contact and she was playing with her necklace frequently.We have since chatted by SMS and it's been nice, but I've since found out that the guy is her bf, and he's younger then us (by one year). I met him when he arrived to meet her, they didn't look 'totally in love'.

Don't get me wrong I don't flirt/go after 'taken' girls , and TOTALLY see her as JUST a friend especially now I know her status, but I'm just wondering what yo all think, does she like me as a friend, or is there more then meets the eye?

What I don't get is...

1) Why she didn't say I'm meeting my boyfriend?

2) Why she was like 'oh don't worry u don't have to stay'? - maybe it's not right with her bf, and she didn't want him to meet me?

3) Ironically when she said bye, she grabbed me and hugged me? I'd only known her like an 1hr?

I'd just appreciate a second opinion, thanks.

P.S I don't mind friends hugging me haha, I just don't get her 'intent' with me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009):

Dude ok here's the thing that means that either she wants to cheat on her bf you know like one of those chicks who likes the thrill of breaking rules or she is just unstable or and this one is kinda unlikely but still she could be a polygamist which means she believes in marriage between more than one person but that's all I got for ya

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