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writes:I can't get it why people treat me like this. When i'm walking at the street or talk to someone there are three types of reactions.. One reaction is that they cough at me, another reaction is that they rub their nose and their face and the final reaction is that.. they tremble when they talk to me. I don't know why this is happening but i find it very irritating and rude. It happens nearly all the time. Even nearly all my friends do it or even all the girlfriends i had so far do it as well..Is it because i am a smoker, or because i have little scars on my face? i would appreciate it if you helped me Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (30 June 2010):
 Thats really strange, I don't really know what to say. I'm now wondering what you smoke exactly because some brands have what I find to be a terrible odor while others aren't that bad at all. The tremble thing makes me picture a very large person who would be very intimidating to talk to. Or there are the people who always look angry even when they are not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i don't say that people are disgusted by me,nevertheless they say i'm good looking. I've asked my friends straight and told them why they react like that and be honest..and they tell me that they don't react like this beacause of me..It gets on my nerves everyday.
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 It's probably both. Cigarette smoke is very strong and very aweful for a lot of people. It could also be, as has been said, your natural body odor.
THen when people get up to you closer and see your face, they might feel uncomfortable, not knowing how to act.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (28 June 2010):
I'm going to be blunt with this and I do not mean to offend but could it be an odor, natural or from the smoke. Or is your apperience really drastic? Would you appear out of the ordinary and scary to some the people in your area. This is very strange and I would definitely ask my friends to be very straight forward and tell me what it is. Next time you notice one of them do it call tham out on it and see what they say. Just try not to be angry with them when they tell you.
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