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Why No Wallow?

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Question - (18 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend just broke up with me through facebook yesterday morning at 1-2am, five days into spring break, and we havent seen each other since the thursday before. everyone else saw it coming, i even had my suspicions, but i planned a lot for the upcoming weeks. i've only shed a couple of tears, but not because he broke up with me, because i cant tell my mom about it. but thats not the problem, everyone's mad at him for dumping me, that is everyone but me. why am i not mad at him, or doing that post breakup wallow crap?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010):

Why can't you tell your mom about it?

Perhaps you aren't mad or distraught because you had suspicions that it was coming, or you just instantly realized that you don't need that kind of guy - the kind who is so inconsiderate to break up with you on Facebook.

This is actually a great thing, that you aren't wallowing and throwing yourself a pity party. You won't have to ever waste any time dealing with that, and you'll move on quickly without added stress to your life.

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