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writes:I started a new job a month ago. Working with a nice guy, but he's giving mixed signals to me (I think). He has a girlfriend and they've been together for 2 years but he flirts with me.He's sent messages/emails saying 'I love you', always complimenting me, telling me I look good, talking about me to others, he sent a text saying I was his 'dream girl' etc. .but he says we're only friends when I asked him where I stood with him.Why lead me on if nothing is to happen? Does he want something to happen? I'm confused and its doing my head in. I like him but im not gonna ruin things between him and his gf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): Hey....I came back just to check answers here and find none. So, I thought I will give you my views on this one. A guy with a girlfriend for 2 years flirts with you because he enjoys flirting with you. But unless he says so do not assume he is interested in something more serious with you. In your case, he has already mentioned that you are only friend to him. I am sure you love yourself, and deserve a guy who truly likes to make you feel special :-) Don't fall for a ridiculous guy who is only there for cheap pleasure. If you enjoy flirting, go ahead and enjoy yourself :-), but remember all he can say to you at the end is "we're only friends" !
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): wow! Sounds familiar. I am waiting for answers to this one too! Can't imagine why guys keep such double standards
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