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writes:My ex boyfriend broke up with me because he claimed to be "too busy" to handle school, work and a relationship (we're both in college, he's 22) It really came out of nowhere, he was just saying how beautiful I was and what a lucky guy he was to have me. In short time we were together (less than a month), he was a perfect gentleman and treated me so well. I guess it was such a surprise to me that I never really got closure, its been almost six months and I'm still not over it. I was hoping to run into him and rekindle things but then I find out that he's in a relationship with a really slutty girl and she's not even pretty. I know I'm definitely better looking, smarter and have more personality than this girl so why didn't he want to date me? I've tried to get over it and date other guys but I'm still so hung up on him, that I dont have eyes for anyone else anymore :( Help?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 My advice is to stop caring about your ex. What he does and whom he dates is up to him, and you will never get any closure. Sometimes guys are just not as great as we thought they were, at least he didn't string you on for longer than a month. Maybe he thought you were too good for him even.
As for personality and why he chose to date this other girl, you don't really know what they have, and it is actually not possible to judge one character as "better" than the other, because all humans are different. Everyone has their bad side, including you, but sometimes they are hard to notice.
Its best to just let it go and not speculate on it, it is a waste of your time and energy.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] +, writes (18 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) I know it's hard dear, but you have to not let this control your life. You WILL, in no doubt in my mind find someone who isn't a prick, you will indeed find a man worthy of you. & Not ever try to shatter your heart. You'll find someone that will put it back together, and make you live up to other things. This asshole, excuse my French.. Will end up seeing there is no girl like you, and that the chick he's dating now isn't even as amazing as you are. Don't let him faze you, live your life, and be happy. There are millions of people in this world, give it a chance. I hope you feel better soon, :) xoxo.
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