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writes:Alrighty 'o , So me and my gal have been together for around 11 months now , we have had our ocassional mis understanding where I didnt give her enough attention , but now she complains it's to much... I love this girl so much and I really can't see what it is I did wrong , which is the point of what I am saying , after about a half an hour of talking , of me asking her whats wrong , she tells me she wants to be single , she tells me she misses seeing her friends and misses being independant , now don't get me wrong , i love her but sometimes , i really can't understand where she is coming from . It was so sudden , and such , but for the past few days Ive seen she has been slightly annoyed with me. so it has been two days so far and i feel like I am going crazy . I sent her a message yesterday , and later on that night we talked and i asked her if what I said meant alot to her , and she said it did , it is clear she still loves me , just as much as I love her because she wants to talk to me number 1 , number 2 she answers my calls , number 3 she listens very attentivly when I am talking to her and when I am telling her how I feel , heck , she even asked me how my day was right after I sent her a huge long text telling her just how much I love her , so it's not like she is stepping away from me , we are still activly in touch , but I don't know what to do right now , because I feel broken in half and I absolutly don't want to lose her. I am most likely giving myself false hope in this , but I'd really like to think that the girl that loves me is still somewhere in her , what I really want to know is what to do now and how to get her back . please anyone with any input at all , give me an answer , because I really don't know what else to do or how to get her back , and that is what I am going for .
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reader, schacm +, writes (22 October 2010):
schacm is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo I told her that I would leave her to think and I would stop speaking to her... she sends me a txt saying I dunno why she was crying but she was ... So I call her ... she starts bawling her eyes out , so I tell her everything is ok she says oh god I am so sorry ... she cries for about 30 mins telling me how she missed me , she loves me and how she wants me ... she tells me she felt stupid with the decsion she made and then she tells me she never wants to lose me again. this morning she sends me a text saying she loves me and wants to be with me but she wants to change certain things . now I feel worse off then where I started because now I don't know if I want to go back to her . somebody please shed some light on what I should be doing here .
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reader, Ven  +, writes (18 October 2010):
Schacm, you have to just give her a few weeks. Her mind is probably just as confused as yours, and when either of you try and make decisions like this all kinds of bad mistakes can be made.
Instead, give both of you enough time to let your heads clear, and figure out what was really bothering her.
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