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writes: Ok so I broke up with my boyfriend on Tuesday after another fight. He never seems to have time for me anymore, and when I brought up this issue he got really mad and hung up on me. I would call him back and ask why he was so mad and it just got ugly and I told him it was over. Two days later he sent me a text saying what he got for a GPA for the semester, acting like nothing had even happened! I ignored his text. That same night I had a missed call at 1:30 am from a blocked number. Not sure if it was him, but I don't know who else it would be. Now I love this boy to pieces, but his temper has driven me away. What I don't understand is why he's not begging me to come back? When we were together and I didn't answer my phone right away, he would call repeatedly and freak out. But now, nothing. No repeated attempts to try to get ahold of me. It's bizarre, and I thought he would be going nuts trying to contact me. It makes me think that he never really cared about me and doesn't care that I'm gone. Or that he may have been seeing someone? Any input from guys would be awesome, thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006): He may be mad right now and may ask for you back later and if he doesn't and can't even put in the effort he normally puts in it might be best to go your own ways, you said yourself that his temper has driven you away. perhaps this is a blessing in disguise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2006): From what you've said he doesnt seem to be capable of having an adult coversation or even an adult/mature relationship. If he was being distant you had a right to hear why. If one minute he's texting you and getting stressed when you dont reply and then another acting though he doesnt care, he might be really confused. It sounds as though your better off on your own and waiting for some one more mature to come along.
Take care x
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (14 May 2006):
 Are you addicted to the drama of a fight or something? YOU DUMPED HIM, THEN YOU DIDN'T REPLY!! He texted you you didn't reply......what is he supposed to think!? I sure as hell wouldn't chase somebody who made it this obvious that they didn't want to be with me. Reverse this situation. He tells you it's over, you text him and he ignores you, you maybe even ring him as well (blocking the number) and he doesn't pick up! WHAT WOULD YOU THINK?? I will tell you what you would think- he isn't interested any more.
Give the bloke a break, he isn't a mind reader. It is your turn now to make a move. And after what you have done I shouldn't be suprised if you have scared him off!
Good luck, but I think you are gonna need it!!
xx
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