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writes:Hey, me and my partner been together 13 years we have 4 kids and are now goin to get married in october 2017, just a few things id like to ask, 1) my partner has admitted to me that she cant talk to me the same way she can other guys whats this mean? 2) in arguments why does she say ill regret it all the time does this mean shes cheated and is about to tell me?. im a quiet guy that likes to talk and be open im always the one fixs the relationship why doesnt she make the effort i feel shes not 100% in love with me, she does say she does but could she be using me to just stay in while shes out?. help me please. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 November 2016):
 Sounds like you are very paranoid and you have got in to a rut, it can happen very easily after four children, but you need to sort this out before you think off getting married. If she feels she cannot talk to you maybe it is because you are sensitive and she does not want to hurt you. When she says you will regret something you automatically think she has cheated, so it could be that you have paranoia and she does not know how to talk to you. You both need professional help with these issues I think because I doubt you are going to work it out between you.
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reader, Slippers +, writes (7 November 2016):
I think you should ..I'm a mho by remit ..get some professional therapy .. you two need to talk things through .. maybe even set up a date night.. do you spend quality time together . It can be difficult when you have young children I know but you need to be able to sit down and maybe discover each other all over again .
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (6 November 2016):
 You two SO need to talk - to each other. And fast - before the wedding.
We can only speculate what she means, especially as we don't know her side of the story.
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