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writes:Please help me! I've been with this girl for 6 months and I love her, she told me she'll feel the same way soon about me. She's said before that she wants to make sure everything will work between us. I'm doing my best to wait for her to make up her mind about how she feels, but now I'm starting to worry about why she is taking so long to decide.I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or what. Please any help would be greatly appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): She's right, make yourself scarce, and see what happens dude. Best of luck ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guillaume, I am going to risk it and try what you said, it's going to be hard to do that to her but I'll give it a week, thanks again to all of you for your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo clear something up, we have been dating for 6 months
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reader, growing  +, writes (9 May 2008):
 Will someone explain me that how can they be in a a relationship if one is not sure if she loves the guy!!!!
this is insane!!
i guess you are frds and then she is telling you that she needs time to come up with the answer but if you two are going around and she still hasn't declared about her love then she is just having sum1else too in her head and she wants to see who is the best one.
so in this type of cases ,i have always maintained that you too start acting same as the other .Like cut down on the number of times you tell her how much you love her and then stop makin compromises that you oftem makes to be with her.
let her sense those changes and then see her reaction and act as james bond to see if she is holding the sun and moon in her both hands.
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reader, rcn +, writes (9 May 2008):
 Your not doing something wrong per se. Love really isn't something that a coin needs to be flipped for. How does she know she will soon? How can she be sure everything will work out or not? I can't be sure what I'm doing from day to day. Is she choosing between being with you and another person? Reading your question, that's the feeling I would get under the same circumstances. I can't say for sure if that's what's going on, but it might be something to check into.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (9 May 2008):
 How long have you been waiting? ...and for what? A phone call or some kind of message that she wants to date you? If you've been waiting for a good long time, I'd either remind her that you are waiting for some kind of response or consider it a lost cause and move on. Yeah, it's a bit of a harsh thing to say, but there's an old saying: you can't make somebody love you. They either do or they don't.
Sorry that's not better news for you. I think a nudge for a reply is a safe thing to ask. Like I said, it's all about how long you've been patiently waiting for some kind of sign.
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