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Why is she comfortable around other boys but not with me?

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Question - (26 June 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2011)
A male Pakistan age 26-29, *ousuf Khan writes:

Hi everyone, i am a very shy guy and am in love with this girl who is shy too. She knows i like her and she also have caught me many times looking at her. I have also noticed her looking at me but as i look her, she turns her head as if nothing happened. Whenever someone says a joke and i am near her, she will laugh and look at me ( I think to see that am i looking her or not because i am looking her all the time ). The problem is that that from few days, she is giving me a very serious look and she hides from me. I am really afraid that she might hate me. She is also comfortable and happy around other boys and also talks to them but she is uncomfortable around me and dont talks with me ( I think she is uncomfortable around me because she is shy or she may not like that i love her ). If she want to says my name or want to talk to someone about me, she will speak my name very slowly so i may not hear it.

Please tell me does she likes or hate me? Why she is talks with other boys and is comfortable around them and not me? Why does she hides from me? Why does she looks at me seriously? Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011):

i've never been comfortable around guys i like. i start shaking, and i can't look up. i either worry they think i'm weird, or i don't want them to know. but i'm close with my guy friends because they're just that to me. just friends. i think she may like you, but doesn't want things to get awkward or make herself nervous.

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A female reader, Linnea  United States +, writes (26 June 2011):

She probably likes you. I'm comfortable around other guys but not my crush. I'm always worried that he will think that I hate him but I only do what I do because I like him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2011):

well, usually when a girl is comfortable with other guys but not with you, it means she likes you. this is because she will worry about what you think of her and her shyness would only make this harder. however, the others things point in the other direction... hmm. I do still think she kinda likes you but i'm not completely sure (well, the only way to be sure would be to ask her out) so sorry for this unclear answer :$:$

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