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writes: i am absolutely falling hard for one of my best friends. problem is, she's in a relationship. but she doesn't seem completely satisfied and i swear she flirts with me really hard. truth is, she cheated on her partner with me back a couple months ago (i know it's wrong, but i'm only human), and since then, we've grown a lot closer. one would think that it would be the opposite since she decided to go back to him. but rather, we spend a ton of time together now, and flirt pretty hard. she told me she had a dream about us being together, and i told her that i had a dream about her and i, as well. we both joked around saying that it was our subconscious mind telling us that we both want to be together. she's also been dropping little signs of flirtation for a while now, and she treats me differently than all of her other friends. we are very touchy and playful with one another (which i never see her do with anyone else), and it's so confusing. i really feel as though we'd make such a great couple. we always joke around with each other, and i feel like there's a bunch of sexual tension there between us. she even tells me that she loves her partner, but could just stand to be friends with him if it happened to work out that way. i feel like i'd be a better candidate, and that i make her happy. i just don't know what to do. she's still with her boyfriend, so i guess there's really nothing i can do. or is there? but why would she be so flirty with me, yet want to stay with him if she's not fully happy? how can i procede if at all? and what are her intentions here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): I have two friends they cant help but flirt. Theyll flirt with anyone. but as youve said your friend said she should be with you (well on the lines of that) you should speak to her and ask her I agree with the girl above. Honesty is the first step. ask her to choose 1 of u who she would rather grow old with out of the two of you. dont be sad if she doesnt choose you ... seems she would but do not get your hopes up . Remember if she chooses her boyfriend dont let that get in between your relatiohsip its her choice to flirt you werent making her but dont fall out
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reader, Kimia +, writes (27 August 2006):
You should open up the matter with her in a completely frank manner: raise it very seriousely and let her know about your fantasies and the plausible ways you both can take to either start or end it up. I am Sure that there is no third way at all. Plus, why not inspiring her to talk it out with her boyfriend. If she is determined to make it away with you, she should not be escaping those dreams of being with you and making a 'pefect couple'. Honesty is the fist step.
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