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*andy2501
writes:why does it hurt when he does deep inside of me ( my leg on his shoulders) but it does not hurt when it is not hitting the end ( my legs open at th side of his arms while he is on top of me ). is thr somethng wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): I'm replying more to the answers you received than to your question because it has already been correctly answer. Deep penetration can put pressure on the cervix which can be uncomfortable for a woman OF ANY AGE. Ask your lover to be more considerate.
Now I get to light into these other guys.
Speaking as an early bloomer who had more fun in school than apparently most of you did, I assure you that girls her age, and even younger, are QUITE physically ready for sex. Consent laws have virtually nothing to do with physical maturity and everything to do with the legitimacy (or lack thereof) of potential children.
In Victorian times, the general public didn't have a firm grasp on how babies were made, let alone young girls. Laws began hitting the books regarding age of consent in the context of trying to protect the mother from perceived virtue lost, and the harm that loss could have on her ability to later attract a husband. They were also intended to protect the potential child from a bastard label, or even abandonment by a young, unwed, indigent mother who would have been highly motivated to rid herself of a bastard child for which she was unable to provide resources, especially since that child was an obstacle preventing her from marrying into those resources.
As a young teen, I was quite proficient at coaxing girls to part with their flowers, and I assure you there was no difference between their anatomy and the anatomy of the older teens girls I had the pleasure of having the pleasure of later in my youth (save perhaps a bit of sag).
Oh, and LOL at q1605 "answering cervix" That made my morning.
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reader, candy2501 +, writes (27 May 2010):
candy2501 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks people. im 16 ;D yeah i think its cos he went in too deep. well... its th legal age. i dun know abt my body needing to adjust to have sex, i learnt sth new 2day. ty {:
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): You are at least 5 years too young to start having sex. You should consider finding a new set of friends. You will be thankful for it later in life.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Your doctor should examine you and make sure you don't have an injury or other problem. Especially as you are really too young still for sex. You may just not be physically mature enough, despite looking grown up on the outside.
Take care of yourself, you only get the one body, so it would be a pity to injure it unnecessarily.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Aren't you a little too young for this? Please tell me your b/f isn't 25 or 30 yrs old...please.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (26 May 2010):
 He's hitting your cervix.
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reader, cnith +, writes (26 May 2010):
 As a side note to what TimmD said, I will add this.
in that position, the legs on shoulders thing, he goes in much deeper than if you're having regular sex. He goes in deeper it hurts because he hits your cervix. (The end of your uterus) It pushes the uterus which pulls at the ligaments holding it in place. It hurts. Sometimes a LOT.
Tell him to stop doing this. If he wont, you need someone else. Sex is about two people, not just him getting what he wants.
I don't care what porn stars do. You aren't one of them...and believe me, it hurts them too. But they're being paid to look like they like it. You aren't being paid, so dont' do it.
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (26 May 2010):
Omg! Too early for sex,take it or leave it.You have a higher chance of catching cervical cancer coz of having sex too early.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (26 May 2010):
 You are extremely young to be having sex. Your body is still developing and essentially you are still growing. When a girl is in her teenage years her body is changing and developing to be able to handle child birth. Once your body goes through those changes it will be able to handle reproduction... which is the main function of sexual intercourse.
Teenage girls hear "You are too young to have sex" all of the time, but they think it's because of mental maturity. They don't always realize that it is more of a physical maturity. Your body isn't designed to handle sex yet. That is why you are having pain. Once your older and your body has finished developing, you will be able to enjoy sex.
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