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writes: Hi, I really fancy a boy off msn. We usually always flirt, I have met him a few times too.He says that the next time he goes clubbing, he wants me to come so we can get together. However, sometimes hes really nice with me and we get on really well, others he chats really stilted, like he doesn't want to be talking to me. He rarely opens a conversation with me, yet he does with my best friend. She says they don't flirt, and that they only chat about her ex, who is his best mate. I don't know what to think. Does he like me? Or is he just messing with me?
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reader, QueenB75 +, writes (20 October 2005):
I've had lots of conversations with people about this and I am going to tell you what I tell them. When you're dealing with people on the internet you're not even talking to a person you're talking to a screen name with a person behind it. Most of the time people on the internet are not very honest about their backgrounds and histories. They see you as just another screen name online. Most of the people you meet online are either in serious relationships or married. I wouldnt even really waste your time meeting guys in chat rooms because half the time most of them are either playing games or just flat out lying about things. If you want to meet a decent guy who's not some involved/married guy just out playing with your head. Match.com and EHarmony.com are two very reliable dating services that can connect you with people who compatible to you. If someone's acting hot and cold towards you I wouldnt waste my time talking to them because chances are they're playing games with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2005): When he doesn't want to talk to you it's probably because he's with someone else--could just be a friend, could be a girlfriend. Why play games and try to figure out what someone wants? We're not mind readers! Get someone who is obviously into you and not afraid to show it--you deserve it!
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