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Why is my husband lying to me?

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Question - (23 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

He went home for a week which was fine as we had talked about and been better. That way he would not have had to drive back and forth 2 weekends in a row. (its about 600 miles round trip) But when he got back I noticed that he put an extra 300-400 miles on the car, so at first I didnt really think anything of it, but then I pay the bills and the only credit card he took with him he was suposed to use only for gas as we had talked about and plus he had a gas card with him and like $60 and he said he would ask his parents for money if he needed it. So when I went to pay his bill there were food charges on there as well, and a charge that said a resturant, and a completely different state then where he said he was going to be, but the next day the charges on there were from his hometown and all that. But it still doesnt make sense because if he did go somewhere to that place it would have been more than 300 miles. Also he could never call me at nite as he went to bed but there was...

a recepit in the car that said he went to taco bell at 1213 in the morning and ordered like 4 drinks and all this food so dont know who would have been with him. Just not sure what to make of the credit card bill, it explains the extra miles but the place on the bill was more than 300 miles away which is really the extra miles that he put on the car.

And a week before he left we got into a fight but we had worked everything out and were happy and wanting to be 2gether and all that. So I dont know.

Also he told me that he took up smoking while he was down there. I only know that cuz in the car there is a lighter and asked what it was there for and he said his friend and I said and u to (as a joke) and he said yah I took up smoking again. I told him I wanted him to quit but he said probably not.

I dont get why he has to lie to me and whatnot.

Well he had been texting this other girl a few months ago but I know her and she lives with her finance in the same state we currently live in......

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (23 July 2008):

eddie agony auntWhy are you investigating so much?

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