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male
age
30-35,
*xracer42
writes:My girlfriend is constantly distancing herself from me.... it never used to be this way. she used to text or calls me all the time then all the sudden its like four texts or one call a day.... we used to be pretty close then all this stuff happened. other stuff that she does is that she is always cussing me out, being moody, always being dramatic over idiotic things, stopped saying she loves or misses me randomly. I am not trying to be dramatic or anything but all of that stuff shouldn't be occurring during a close bond relationship (well used to be) now everytime I ask her why she doesnt show affection towards me, she literally gets mad. I am like im just trying to figure it out and she finally told me that she doesnt understand why she is distancing herself from me. psssh there is gotta be a reason. i believe its either another guy being involved or just going around playing behind my back. i dont know. I am constantly showing her affection by sending her randomly sweet voicemails, texts, and emails and she never replies or doesnt act like she gets them or something. weird right?? also we had this guy well actually two that told her that they liked her and i heard that she liked them back and i confronted her about it and she was like oh my god. im like well thats not right you know.... and she says fine ill just stop and im like you shouldnt have to be talking to guys like that behind my back then i have to find about it. its pathetic. then she is always writing to them on facebook and calls them darling and she misses them while she doesnt write anything at all my wall. well im done talking now bc its long.... anyway please help me.. should i just break it off or what.. i mean we r on a break right now and it isnt working....
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reader, ilovedannyjones  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 OH MY GOD, this girl isn't good enough for you. You deserve much better than her. Because a girl like her, who doesn't show her affection anymore, doesn't care about you. She just goes around flirting with other guys.
I know how you feel. Because i am a girl and i also have a boyfriend and i never do things behind his back. So just tell her how you feel. But i think you should end this relation. You deserve someone who would always be there for you, because this girl doesn't really sound like she's good.
I PROMISE, if you do not dump her right now, someday you will regret. Seriously, NO JOKE! Because that is what's happening to me right now. My boyfriend is very moody and he has serious ego problem. We get into fights everyday and everyone told me to dump him. I know it's really hard but i guess you don't want to be depressed all the time.
Just move on with you life. Stay happy and get her out of her mind. Trust me, you will get much better girlfriend. Just call her up and say it's over. :)
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